Matters have likely progressed faster than you may have expected or thought prudent in a romantic involvement or impassioned creative project, and you may feel you’re once again in over your head. I suggest you let go of the feeling that you’re heading for a minor disaster. If you look, you’ll see not only an escape hatch when you most need it, but an opportunity to direct the course of events.
Doors will open for you, if only you would actually express what you’re feeling. You have plenty going on in there, and it’s an unusual blend of confidence, fear and desire. But feeling is not enough. Emoting is not enough. What you need is actual expression. The way you know you’re doing that is you feel like you’re taking a chance — and as a result you feel good.
The best sex is always a little chaotic, a bit messy and unpredictable. Never fold your clothes when you undress. Toss them off with abandon and just make sure nothing lands on a lit candle. This is the way to live your life right now. You are the seducing influence in every situation. Your presence will lead people to reveal themselves, and to get in contact with their desire.
There appears to be an overwhelming level of activity in your environment, or maybe it’s just your mental environment. Whatever the case may be, the energy is real and you need to harness it in the most constructive possible way. And there is a way, though it’s likely to be a new skill or technique you’ve learned; something that you’ve recently added to your considerable repertoire of personal gifts.
Creative process is rarely straightforward. It does not, however, follow that everything that runs a convoluted course is creative. Yet what you’re involved with right now is something calling for an intuitive, innovative and even artful approach to the question. Note that applying such a perspective is likely to come with a series of breakthroughs and then phases of effort at applying what you’ve discovered.
What is it about sex? I mean, what is it exactly? Have you noticed that the world seems driven by something that it’s simultaneously obsessed with and terrified of? It’s time for you to put sex into the category of what is natural: like organic apples, playing Frisbee with a dog or dancing at a concert. Any time you have a question or a concern, imagine one of those things.
Recent developments have served to make you more mentally aware of certain emotional patterns — as will events of the next few days. You have to live with yourself, and you have to live with the people you encounter and have joined with in your journey. Events of recent seasons have demonstrated that what has the power to heal also has the power to do harm.
Betty Dodson, one of the great sex icons of the 20th century and for that matter the 19th and 21st centuries, once told me that if you want to have an orgy, invite twice as many people as you want to show up. Then, all you need are three among them who are steadfastly devoted to getting naked and making it happen.