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Photo by Michele Beck.

Reclaiming the Erotic Body, one pole at a time

Performance artist and filmmaker Michele Beck has turned her camera on her women-only pole dancing class — and herself — as an exploration of the ways women can reclaim their sensual, body-centered sexuality by using a dance form that has long been considered exploitative and misogynistic by many feminists. Removed from the limited context of a strip club, these classes offer a safe space in which to liberate a form of feminine sexual power that has been repressed, cut off, shamed out of existence, misunderstood or misdirected in the lives of many women.

The documentary My Erotic Body is set to be released in 2016. You can watch a brief trailer above, and another short video about the project here (it contains some of the same interview segments with these ‘regular’ women, but also some words from Beck).

Reviewing the project on the Psychology Tomorrow website, Velleda C. Ceccoli, PhD, writes:

Pole dancing and the particular moves that it involves — squatting with open legs, crawling on the floor, swinging and wrapping oneself on the pole — seem to counteract the constrictions that history, society, and culture have imposed on female sexuality. It helps to liberate Woman from the inside. In fact, the classes provide ways of moving that are aimed at helping women to re-experience their bodies within an environment that is about self indulgence, in that it encourages what feels good. For some, this involves re-claiming their sexuality after having children and shedding the idea of motherhood as sexless and/or saint-like. For another, it involves reclaiming aggression as a way to protect oneself and insure that what happened in childhood never happens again. For all the women in the film, there is an element of performance that helps to create the particular erotic creature they become – the clothes, shoes, and other accouterments that they select have a powerful effect on how they embody their erotic.

In the end, this film is about women discovering their bodies and their Eros along with other women, through their validation of desire and sexuality. It is about re-discovering the female body in all of its embodied sexual potential, and needing other women as mentors and co-conspirators on the way to developing a sense of comfort and confidence in being WOMAN.

Perhaps we are still reclaiming the feminist movement.

Hanging On

By Judith Gayle | Political Waves

At this time of year, I usually mention my ancestors who came to this continent aboard the Mayflower. Of the seven who made the crossing, only two survived that first year: John Howland, a young bond servant to John Carver, suspected author and signer of the Mayflower Compact, and another, Elizabeth Tilley, child of Pilgrim parents, who eventually married. The boomerang effect of stripping whitewash off our mythologies, including the origin story of those first years in Plymouth, has offered us a more realistic look at the humanity that built this nation, and that is one of the blessings I’m counting this holiday season. As one of the 30 million descendants of that first motley crew of 102 immigrants, I find all this business of saintliness and unblemished virtue tedious.

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I should mention an earlier adventurer, the lately maligned — and deservedly so — Christopher Columbus who “sailed the ocean blue” in 1492. We mostly ignore what happened during those years between mention of Spain’s entry and the perilous passage of the Mayflower in 1620. Since Columbus never got this far north, recorded history is sketchy, but stories of deprivation so severe at the Jamestown Colony in Virginia that inhabitants resorted to cannibalism have recently been confirmed forensically. No wonder, then, that the group who landed in Plymouth was reduced in number by half within the first few bitterly cold winter months.

Grampa John (times 13 generations, in my case) had a singular accomplishment prior to landing in Massachusetts: he was swept off the ship in a raging storm and grabbing hold of the topsail halyard, held on until he was eventually hauled back in. As a religious Separatist (Puritan), John no doubt considered his rescue providential. As bondsman to the first governor of the colony (who also served as representative of the British merchants who funded the expedition), his retrieval was also considered the successful securing of an asset. We have been about this game of profitable conquest — the birth of American exceptionalism and a hint of the fledgling doctrine of Manifest Destiny — since the very beginning.

As things are rarely as simplistic as historical events (that might prove useful to politics) are depicted, we are finally taking a realistic look at the socioeconomic complexity of our national heritage. The recent National Geographic two-part mini-series, Saints And Strangers, came closer to an accurate accounting of this event than we’re used to, although, as entertainment, liberties were necessarily taken with the dialogue, time line shortcuts were imposed, and facts important to indigenous Americans overlooked.

The tale is narrated, for instance, by William Bradford as leader of the colony, although he did not become governor until the second year at Plymouth. History tells us that Governor Carver — who presided at the first Thanksgiving but never saw the second — was soundly criticized posthumously by his financiers, for having spent too much time in those first critical weeks organizing the struggling colony and not enough securing profitable resources. Evidently, in service to the movie version of events, at any rate, he who fails to prosper can be consigned to history’s trash heap.

To its credit, this National Geographic offering attempts to grapple with the ethics of, for example, pilfering stores of corn buried by the locals, and explores the moderate voices of both colonists and Native American leaders, as well as those quick to judgment. Since everyone has a perspective dear to them, you will not be shocked to learn that we can find disparity in the reviews of Saints And Strangers.

Mainstream media like the Washington Post seemed to welcome the attempt at a more accurate accounting, while over at über-conservative Breitbart, the reviewer found the mini-series unimpressive, although it gave points for not succumbing to the “politically correct, anti-Western European hate-fest we’ve come to expect from Hollywood.”

Most conservative and several mainstream reviewers found the offering “boring,” which tells me more about them and their expectations of life as simplistic drama than about the facts at Plymouth colony. We seem to have an unstated need for some Kumbaya moment to take the edge off the harsher face of our aggressions — something more soothing, like one of one of those little construction paper Pilgrim hats we made in Kindergarten, celebrating the discovery of maize with our new Red Indian friends [sic.]

On the opposite side of the argument, the Wampanoag, who had been contracted to verify the accuracy of the script and dismissed when they demanded approval, find the mini-series denigrating and culturally inaccurate, and this, of course, in defiance of National Geographic’s reputation for historical accuracy. Frankly, it’s understandable if this topic is as sensitive as a wild hare among those who have seldom seen their history sympathetically portrayed, let alone truthfully told. And while I can be empathetic to their outrage, it seldom helps to settle a controversy. I appreciated a measured and not entirely negative review by a Mohawk man in Indian Country, titled “Close Enough is Great.” Gotta start somewhere telling a story not so warm and cozy, right ?

I’ve not yet been able to see Saints and Strangers, but I look forward to it. The cast includes characterizations of both my ancestors, which will be interesting to watch. There is, however, the bigger questions we don’t address when we discuss this topic — things like American hegemony, our continued empiricism, and the necessity of ‘American leadership’ that almost always extends our footprint of influence without improving the circumstances of those we seek to protect.

Was the Plymouth landing the first step in an intentional genocide of the indigenous population or  was that just another of those unintended consequences we’re so good at? And after all these generations, all this time relating to our neighbors, should’t we have questions about who and what the “savages” really are? At least, in this starker version of the Thanksgiving story, we can chew over the moral and ethical implications of taking what is not ours simply because we can.

There are some valuable takeaways, important in the scheme of things: gratitude for our ability as a species to overcome great odds and thrive in spite of them. There is encouragement in this story, in that we were able to find commonality with one another, even though those early agreements did not hold for long, along with admonition that we must continue to respect our varied cultural differences while caring for our mutual survival. There is comfort in knowing we’ve overcome so many of those early deprivations and influences that killed us so easily, that we’ve created a less difficult — if not dangerous — world to navigate.

The simplest bit of wisdom we can glean from this story can be imagined easily enough in my mind’s eye, me face to face with Grampa John, asking what he might consider the most important thing to remember on this epic journey. Not hard to conjure him telling me — telling all of us — that when the storm breaks all around, hold tight to the rope!

Transcendence

It’s not unusual for your own experience to give you the notion that there is more going on than meets the eye. Indeed, it is a distinguishing human trait to feel that the intuitive and spiritual transcend the merely empirical (which only acknowledges tangible proof).

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Unfortunately, just as the victors of aggression write history, those who believe that reality is only empirical tend to dominate the power structures of our material world.

But the empiricists who often rule the roost in manifestations of dominant paradigms do not always prevail. There are times when those distinguished by their humane nature may well win the day. If there is anything to astrological indications, you are living in such a time. It is, like a previous time very much similar, represented by the powerful presence of Neptune in its Pisces roost.

Taking into account the transitional years when its annual retrograde took it back and forth between signs, Neptune was last in Pisces from 1848 to 1862. That was when a group of people now often referred to as transcendentalists became influential in social discourse. Prominent among them was Henry David Thoreau.

In 1849 (the first full year of Neptune continuously in Pisces) Thoreau published a treatise that introduced the world to his advocacy of civil disobedience. It was an outrageous and revolutionary idea at the time, consigned to the impractical. Yet, in the 20th Century (long after the writings of Thoreau’s detractors were forgotten), both Mahatma Gandhi and the Reverend Doctor Martin Luther King Jr drew upon Thoreau’s work to bring empires of the eminently empirical dominant paradigm to heel — without firing a shot.

Now Neptune is back in Pisces again. More specifically, Neptune in Pisces is today symbolically confronted for the first time in a long time by emblematically empirical Saturn, precisely 90 degrees away in Sagittarius. This angular relationship between Saturn and Neptune is known by astrologers as a ‘square aspect’ which, among other things, represents tension confronting you and the world.

Saturn square Neptune can plausibly be interpreted to imply that confrontation is, in fact, taking place within you. The aspect clearly indicates that you will play a part in determining whether Thoreau’s notions — or any notion conceiving of and dedicated to human beings transcending the empirical and actually being humane — can long endure.

For Neptune (as with every planet, sign, house and aspect in astrology) has two sides. Very much like human beings, the most encouraging side of Neptune is transcendent, and the most discouraging side is utterly and irredeemably dissolute.

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So which will it be? Will our era preserve and employ the world-changing notions of Thoreau? Will the timeless and boundless poetry of Walt Whitman and Emily Dickinson continue to inspire?

Will the firmly grounded, yet decidedly transcendent, faith that Ralph Waldo Emerson had in our kind be sustained?

Or will profits derived from slavery and war finally determine the shape of our world? Will racism and intolerance continue to justify genocide? Will inhumanity be excused as inevitable, and refugees find no refuge?

These are among the questions manifesting with Saturn square Neptune. Such are the tensions and confrontations you cannot evade. The answers to those inquiries and the resolutions to those conflicts can only come from within each of us, individually, to determine the fate of all of us collectively.

And on this day when the United States ostensibly celebrates the deliverance of a group of European refugees up against starvation and the elements in a new land, you can answer. You can act to transcend the human condition. You can resolve to do your part to redeem all of us from the excuses and justifications which have allowed the discouragingly indifferent and malicious side of humanity to so long dominate life on Earth.

Finally, may tomorrow be about more than profit and empirical values. For transcendence is only a choice away.

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Danielle Voirin’s Photo of the Day for 11.26.15

A pre-Thanksgiving dinner walk through the steep hills in Esslingen, Germany.

A pre-Thanksgiving dinner walk through the steep hills in Esslingen, Germany.

Paris-based photographer Danielle Voirin travels the world and documents her experiences in photographs. She takes street photography and photojournalism a shade beyond even art, to the level of mysticism. You may see more of her work on her website DanielleVoirin.com, or her alt website, DaniVoirin.com.

Observing Gratitude, and Putting It To Work

I covered one facet of today’s inaugural Saturn-Neptune square and yesterday’s Gemini Full Moon in the Monday Astrology Diary, which you’re welcome to review if you like. So in today’s column, I wanted to look ahead into the weekend — particularly the Sun entering the Saturn-Neptune square.

Photo by Amanda Painter.

Water and structure — Neptune and Saturn — meet in the form of bubbles. Photo by Amanda Painter.

First, I’ll mention that the newly waning Moon will continue through Gemini all day today (Thanksgiving Day in the U.S.) It enters Cancer Friday at 2:26 pm EST / 19:27 UTC. This means the Moon will be making a slew of aspects to planets all around the zodiac wheel.

Some of these contacts may briefly heighten tension (especially emotional reactions to old family patterns, criticism or self-criticism, and collective beliefs you might be trying to distance yourself from). Yet the Moon will also harmonize with other planets that could ease communication with intimate partners (Venus and Mars in Libra), or foster nourishing ideas about what it means to share a meal today with others (Ceres in Aquarius). For that, I am grateful.

So today is not likely to be dull — but it should move quickly (or, at least, your thoughts about it will). Saturday and Sunday, with the Moon in Cancer, may take on a domestic tone — complete with nesting and caring impulses. One of the loveliest ways to show gratitude for someone or something is to take care of them in some way. Even the smallest ways of being thoughtful can achieve this.

Yet the most prominent aspect pattern this weekend involves the Sagittarius Sun making a conjunction to Saturn, and a square to Neptune in Pisces — both exact Sunday, essentially constituting one event. The Sun is entering the yearlong Saturn-Neptune square, though the Sun only passes through briefly.

Since the Sun represents your conscious self-awareness and Sagittarius is a philosophical, ‘big picture’ sign, you might notice a sense of how you yourself fit into this process of dissolution and visioning that is developing on the world stage.

Then again, you might not. It could be that having the emblem of our consciousness positioned so close to this process that is only beginning could make it hard to see or understand clearly. That’s okay, too; you have time to observe and process and engage with what is happening.

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Even on a ‘mundane’ or ‘everyday’ level, this astrology could feel difficult to pin down. Sun square Neptune is known for making it hard to see clearly; your idealism might be stimulated, yet you might not have the energy or the traction to push toward your loftier goals.

Yet Saturn conjunct the Sun provides some structure and direction if you’re willing to see and accept it (though it also could feel a little low-energy). Figure out what your most important responsibilities are; that is, your real duties — the ones that feel essential to you at a fundamental level; you might even notice a theme of ‘service’ involved. Those are the tasks you can tackle and make some progress with, especially if there is an element of organization or planning involved.

You don’t have to dictate that others do the same; the Cancer Moon may emphasize ‘caring’, but there are many ways to show that. Dig into whatever it is you must do, and allow a sense of gratitude — that there is work you can do to make something better than it was, for example — keep you moving.

Dear Madame Zolonga: I’m Between the Lions this Thanksgiving!

Dear Madame,

I’m stressed out and worried and seeking any advice you can give. This is the first year I’m hosting Thanksgiving and I’m at my wits’ end. My mother-in-law is a perfectionist and wants everything her way. In case you haven’t guessed it, she’s a Taurus. She’s stubborn as a bull. On top of it she brags that she has Leo rising. She’s a lot of fun, if you know what I mean.

Then we have my mother, who has a Leo Sun and feels that everything should be about her. Put these two in a room together and oh boy. They are one of the reasons we chose to elope.

Anyway, do you have any suggestions on how to manage these two?

Happy Turkey Day, hopefully.

— Preparing the Spotlight for the Leo Invasion

Dearest Prepper,

I have no idea what your Sun sign is, but if your situation is as you describe it, your Sun sign wouldn’t matter anyway: few mortals can manage the firepower of dueling Leos. It would be like trying to spot a fifth magnitude star between two suns simultaneously going supernova: the poor non-Leo person all but disappears in such situations.

Is there a particular reason you invited both mothers for this special occasion? Did your doctor recommend you increase your blood pressure? Are you secretly addicted drama? Were you hoping the heated presence of both mothers would serve as your second oven, keeping the mashed potatoes and bread rolls warm while you march to the orders of your MIL’s demands for the Williams-Sonoma Focaccia, Leek, and Wild Mushroom Stuffing recipe?

Or did you invite them both because do you feel guilty? Is it the elopement that’s brought out this inadvisable offer to bring the Leo Ladies together for Thanksgiving? Pax Leonis? Please. I’m not sure you’ll get it, but you can try.

The problem with these kinds of ‘make nice’ gestures is that we were pre-cast in roles we never auditioned for and the whole performance comes off stilted and hollow. For instance, your role as an eloper. They had expectations of playing the Royal Mother, and you didn’t deliver.

Should you feel guilty about this? Or more precisely, are you feeling shame for your sweet escape to matrimony? True remorse would imply you actually did something wrong. Shame would be a feeling they’ve imposed about your ‘guilt’, a way to ensure that you put them at the center of your decisions. Without more information about your elopement, I would only say take care what role you find yourself in; is this from a script you wrote, or is another’s hand at work?

Astrologically, there’s something at work here. Saturn (the hand of maturation, restriction and boundaries) has returned to resume his trip through a particular part of Leos’ charts that rules their children. This trip will last for a couple of years and during that time all Leos with children will undoubtedly experience changes within their relationships to their progeny.

Saturn is inimical to the Sun’s rays (imagine sitting in the shade against a cool wall that blocks the summer heat), and his presence in the Kid Zone will ‘block’ some of the Leo Sun’s usual influence, requiring both parent and child develop new expectations and allowances for one another. Saturn also reminds us of the passage of time and of loss. A greater maturity is required, and you and your spouse may be the ones your mothers perceive as the killjoy of their maternal aspirations. You are blocking their lights, see? Reminding them of a loss.

But they are not the only ones who are affected. You, too, will have to change; and by that I mean you will need to find new, more mature ways to relate to your parents. Saturn says, “get a backbone.” Saturn in the sign of Sagittarius (as it will be for the next two years) says, “Back up your beliefs. Stand up for your highest good.” Be the good Saturn and stand on your own two feet.

Speaking of, what’s your game plan? Thanksgiving Day this year does not promise conclusive reconciliation and harmonization. But you can parlay this day into a longer, possibly positive narrative arc if you come prepared with diplomatic motives.

They missed out on their big day in the sun as proud mothers of their little cubs: denying that loss may only result in more demanding behavior from them. Would it hurt you make that focaccia and wild mushroom stuffing — to splash out for the day with all the flowers and food, great wine, and good music you can afford? Show them you are ‘adulting’ and willing to mingle your own light with theirs. Sometimes a grudge is best mended by forgetting it ever existed. Shine your own light and let others shine theirs, too.

Wishing you no lumps in your ‘taters,

Madame Z

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Dearest readers: With regret I must say this will be the last Dear Madame for a while. The mutability of the year has caught me as well and required I rearrange my commitments. Other work and the return of a large project from my past will consume most of my winter and spring as I prepare my way for my own Jupiter return next year. It has a been a delight and a pleasure to write for Planet Waves’ smart, savvy and astrologically astute readers, and I thank Eric for generously offering me this delightful space here. Many thanks to Amanda, too, for her ever-clever introductions to my pieces and her sharp editorial eye! Adieu, and again, thank you.

— Madame Z.

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