Today’s Oracle takes us to the Virgo weekly for March 27, 2009.
Does someone want something from you, do they want to give something to you, or do they want an exchange? Look at the facts; or rather, both sets of facts. When you add them up independently, do they come out to the same thing? Here is a harder question: to what extent are you using the transaction to validate yourself? I think this is the deeper issue. It would be helpful if you sized up the situation from the standpoint of needing validation in the context of a relationship. On one level it may seem about sexual validation, but to me it looks like you are seeking evidence for the existence of your soul. You can do this with the help of another person, but it’s easier outside that context.
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“to what extent are you using the transaction to validate yourself? I think this is the deeper issue.”
Thanks for this Oracle, Eric. It’s a great reminder, a great question. Very helpful to me in a family situation right now. I give up my need to be right. Some relief there, although still holding to my integrity. It’s tricky. The question creates space, and that’s the area to cultivate.