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Teacher ethics and the limits of friendship and fear

I recently encountered a pair of posts on the New Zealand-based website The Yoga Lunchbox. Taken together, they create some food for thought about the nature of teacher-student ethics, boundaries, consent, power dynamics (real or perceived), interpretations of “friendship,” and whether a healthy close personal relationship necessarily runs counter to a healthy teacher-student dynamic.

Kara-Leah Grant (left) and Cameron Shayne in their video interview.

Kara-Leah Grant (left) and Cameron Shayne talk ethics, power dynamics, sex, freedom to choose, polarization and Yoga culture.

Both posts are focused on the environment of Yoga classes, but I suspect many of the ideas can be extrapolated to other teacher-student situations.

Of course, with Yoga, we get the question of how an ancient ‘spiritual’ practice with such an emphasized physical component (at least in popular culture) might add layers of complexity to the questions posed.

In the first piece, Kara-Leah Grant interviews author and Yoga teacher Donna Farhi. Much of the interview centers on Donna’s responses regarding the nature of the relationship between a Yoga teacher and their student. Farhi asserts that to become a personal ‘friend’ to a student weakens or subverts an effective teacher-student dynamic in Yoga, and clearly holds herself and others to high ethical standards.

This topic stems from Grant’s introduction of yoga teacher Mark Whitwell’s assertion that Yoga can only be transmitted in relationship, and that he defines that relationship as friendship. Normally I do not advocate reading the comments sections on most websites, but the comments under this piece contain the suggestion by a man that perhaps men and women define “friendship” differently and have different expectations around it, and that perhaps that is contributing to a misunderstanding.

In the second Yoga Lunchbox piece, Kara-Leah Grant introduces a video interview with Yoga teacher Cameron Shayne, who kicked up a shitstorm in the Yoga community when he wrote an article asserting that two consenting adults in teacher-student roles should be free to decide for themselves whether they want to engage in a sexual relationship.

As Grant notes, regarding the vitriolic comments and rebuttal articles Shayne’s piece engendered, “This is a hot topic — power, sex, ethics and the teacher/student relationship. The difficulty lies not in determining what is right or wrong but in our ability to communicate with each other when these buttons are being pushed.”

I encourage you to watch the full interview, no matter how much Shayne might rub you the wrong way at times. Apropos of Eric’s recent writings about Saturn conjunct the Great Attractor, Shayne’s stance and personality are polarizing. Are many of his statements just a cop-out on having personal and professional ethics? Or are his remarks about fear — how it teaches us, and how it shows us where our inner work is in this lifetime — right on the mark? If he pushes your buttons or provokes your fear (which might come through as anger), are you still able to listen?

I’m not sure I’ve entirely made up my mind about Shayne. But I think both he and Farhi raise important questions, and I offer kudos to Grant for holding space for the conversation.

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by Judith Gayle

Astrology bit me today. I had a finely-tuned think-piece coming along when I inadvertently wiped it away, along with all my notes. Saturn in Sagittarius is exactly opposing my natal Uranus at the moment, so I should have expected something more than a resurgence of an old health challenge that buzzes and snarls when that Uranus gets tickled, but I was flying by the seat of my pants, lost in the fumes of wordsmithing and point-shaping. So it goes, here on the cusp of change.

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We are on the cusp of change in so many ways. Some of it is obvious, some of it too far away — still unclear, dallying in the light peeking in under the door — to determine, but it’s here and it’s due to bite us unless we deal with it now. Because tracking the specifics of change is a chore, rather than put further strain on my immune system or pounding head, I’m going to mention a few of the things easily noted on the radar and let that be enough today.

The Trans-Pacific Partnership trade agreement was signed in New Zealand this week. It must now go through the process for a vote — an up/down vote, as won by Obama awhile back — that will take many months. Most of us know this is a disaster of a trade deal and needs to be stopped. There are many organizations attempting that now. Go here to find activist ops and community leadership.

John Kerry, along with his Russian counterpart, has proposed a temporary cease fire in Syria to allow the UN to deliver aid to millions of suffering civilians; and although the international community is encouraged by the opportunity to provide humanitarian assistance, Assad complained that interference by foreigners would just make the war longer. The Sunni/Shia schism that lies in the belly of this beast continues to stalk the Middle East and muddle any option for peace.

Our five conservative activist judges in the Supreme Court have thrown the e-brake on Obama’s Clean Power Plan, leaving it unimplemented through summer of next year when it will be heard by the appellate court. This is not just a catastrophic decision and one aimed at curtailing EPA power; it is an attempt to limit the power of the presidency and return pollution decisions to individual states. This suit, filed against the EPA by some 28 states and various industries led by the Chamber of Commerce, has resulted in an unprecedented, shortsighted and extremely dangerous decision.

Another of those unexpected firsts includes new House Speaker Ryan turning a blind eye to Obama’s last budget, making no provision to hold a congressional hearing on the matter. The level of hostility on record is quite remarkable, including this quote by House Budget Chairman Rep. Tom Price, R-Ga:

“Rather than spend time on a proposal that, if anything like this administration’s previous budgets, will double down on the same failed policies that have led to the worst economic recovery in modern times, Congress should continue our work on building a budget that balances and that will foster a healthy economy.”

With cooperation like this in Congress, it’s no wonder Trump and Sanders have broad public appeal. Seems worth noting we should probably prepare ourselves for another of those fabulous government shut-downs later in the year, as the nation prepares to hand off to new leadership.

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With a kind of strange clarity, there are many firsts to speak to now. Last night, two seasoned female reporters from PBS — one black, one white — hosted a Democratic presidential debate between a Protestant woman candidate and her Jewish male contender. Despite portents of inevitability, the woman had won an initial state primary by far less than a percentage point, while the man had won the next by over twenty, laying waste to the talking point that Democratic Socialism was anathema in America and that establishment politics cannot be challenged.

Gwen Ifill and Judy Woodruff not only aced the debate questions, but dug deeply into the issues at hand — the first time women had been tasked with the whole of the responsibility. Hillary Clinton congratulated all of them for breaking a precedent, and Bernie mentioned later that his own candidacy, along with his win in New Hampshire, was ground-breaking as well.

When we juxtapose this with the debates of the Republican candidates, Donald Trump running with his — ummm — hair on fire from the sharp questions of a savvy Megyn Kelly, it does seem as though intelligent discourse will find a way through the mosh pit of misogyny and retreat from reality that pretends at conservatism these days. When Ifill asked Sanders about social and racial issues that are compounding mental health problems for white (predominantly male) citizens in financially hard hit areas, it felt as through progressivism was still alive and well in the good old US of A and we had not given up on community.

Mrs. Clinton is depending on establishment connections to bring her to victory — ties to the black community, large funders like George Soros and Citibank and lots of Super-delegates who threw their hands in with hers long before they were sure who’d run against her. All share one thing: they don’t believe government can change, and many don’t want it to.

Mr. Sanders is depending on the older Democrats and Independents who remember that government is a social democracy, pulling from the collective pot to serve the needs of society. The Republican principle of privatized services, unwieldy and unresponsive to the order and protection of the larger unit, will not serve the common good. Without government, for instance, we have no public libraries or schools, no fire protection or police force, no postal service or garbage collection. We have no infrastructure, no roadwork or hazard protection, no parks, no museums or courts. Without a social contract with one another we have no checks and balances, no safety net, and no duty to one another. Essentially, we have no civilization.

The elders who remember when these things were not at risk honor Bernie’s vision, and for different reasons so do the youth. These are the youngsters who, to give them their due, probably don’t know that Henry Kissinger is the guy who said, ominously, “The illegal we do immediately; the unconstitutional takes a little longer.” While they are not unaffected by history and all it teaches, like those who have yet to fully embrace their mortality, their concern is primarily the immediate moment.

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Image by Stephen Ewen, from Occupy, 2013.

They are more worried about a government that had been declared inept by the right of the political spectrum (who then spent decades proving it so) and challenged by an old lefty with the instincts of an FDR Democrat who wants to return “public” to public policy, to put their well-being in the middle of the equation. They might not remember when the brilliant California educational system was the star in the crown of the nation, serving a growing middle class; but they believe it can happen again, and help relieve them of some of the crushing school debt that has left them hopeless and helpless. They have fewer concerns about the culture war than the class war, having become multicultural themselves.

The minority youth, by the way, aren’t on board with the Clinton elders so much as the elders had thought, nor the early feminists either; and that is by the very design of change itself. The millennial generation has its own concerns, and a fast-track into the future. They are easier with technology than previous generations and quicker to think outside the box. They aren’t weighed down by the past.

If they think Bernie can change the way government works, it will be because they are willing to apply themselves to those changes rather than have them provided. Should they turn out to be the ones who would push the progressive agenda forward, worries about Sanders’ ability to flex might prove moot. This isn’t a generation whose heart is set on war or conquest and they will be less interested in greasing the skids of the military-industrial complex than prior generations.

The people and events that seem to be shaking the American tree are the very first warning signs of the events to come. I was mouth-breathing at a conversation about how this seems very odd considering the ‘pitchfork’ response after the Wall Street debacle died away without too much muss and fuss, only to be replaced by serious anger from the left. Why the delay, the talking heads wonder? If people were so upset, what took them so long? Things are so much better now, they argue — but better for whom?

Then I wonder about them, their lives of privilege and insider connection, that allow them NOT to understand how inevitable it would be that those same white folks we spoke of, depressed and discouraged, turn to drugs and alcohol and suicide because the very foundation of their nation has given way beneath them. They certainly don’t understand that those loud and angry young people in Black Lives Matter are no longer willing to live with the current rash of murderous savagery for little reason other than authoritarian fear of losing white privilege.

Does no one remember the grassroots rise of pride and power demonstrated by the Black Panthers except the armed goons on the right? Are fear and loathing, contempt and violence all we can muster as the larger organism of our culture implodes? While armed civilian Peace Keepers protect the property of Ferguson, Missouri, from being vandalized by rioting youth, the city fathers of Ferguson reject proposals for a reordered police department by the Department of Justice as unworkable in their area. The DoJ is suing to bring them into line.

Yet we still fail to see how everything is changing. Quite remarkable, I think, that the establishment remains so totally tone deaf to what will be explosive at some point in the near future unless it is addressed. Open this link for a little illustration, an example of how this is being missed by those in authority, it’s stunning how clueless they remain.

My favorite story this week was by a woman who ran a political race against Bernie in Vermont years ago and won. She was a mother, and at some point that came up, with Bernie being somewhat stern on the matter. It was, he decided, sexist to deal with that issue on the campaign trail. Think about that awhile. It wasn’t that Bernie didn’t have kids himself or was unsympathetic to that condition. It was simply a part of the quotient that did not apply itself to the situation.

That explains a lot to me. It illustrates some of that curmudgeonry we’ve assigned to old Bernie. It isn’t that Bernie doesn’t see it or feel these differences — not to mention that he’s mellowed in his prickly opinions over the years. But for Sanders, this equality thing is the real deal.

I guess the question is: is it the real deal for us, as well?

Making Changes

“Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed people can change the world.”
— Margaret Mead

We have another round of changes on tap in the sky beginning this weekend and going into next week. On the whole, the impending celestial modulations evoke what would and would not be your best choices for proactively making some meaningful change in the world.

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The first thing to remember is that waiting for the world to change is the equivalent of withdrawing from participation. In general, if you want to have the privilege of negotiating the nature of modifications being made, you must first be participating in making them.

The next essential to keep in mind is a key word in the captioned Margaret Mead quote: “thoughtful.” Being thoughtless will not win the type friends or influence the type of people you need to have in support.

In addition, it helps to be in the right (not necessarily on the right) if you wish to enlist allies in their right minds with their hearts in the right place. Those who use the threat of violent force up front pretty much exclude themselves from the category of those who are in the right. The recent episode of armed vigilantes seeking to annex public land in rural Oregon is but one example. Most of the local residents were not big fans of the U.S. federal government in the first place. Even so, a group of would-be cowboys who came in brandishing weapons and spouting belligerence did not exactly inspire widespread love and devotion outside of their own previously convinced political clique.

What’s more, most of us are not going to make much progress changing the world on our own. In addition to being proactive, thoughtful and non-violent, it is essential to work with a commitment to cooperation, mutual respect and harmony with others in order to both inspire and achieve modifications that everybody concerned can live with.

Finally, all change must begin inside the individual. You have to begin with the attachments and conditioning that adhere you to what your conscience recognizes as wrong and pernicious. It is not an easy undertaking to change yourself, but it is often an essential prerequisite to making change in the world as a whole.

Interestingly, the astrology over the next week or so contains many a symbolic reference to the long and involved process that represents a road to meaningful change. Unlike what some are inclined to do, the sky does not wait. There is no stasis above. Changes are constantly made as a matter of due course.

The written readings for all 12 signs of Vision Quest are available, and do are the audio astrology and rune readings! Order all 12 signs here, or individual signs here.

The written readings for all 12 signs of Vision Quest are available for instant access, and so are the audio astrology and rune readings! Order all 12 signs here, or select individual signs here.

Foremost among the astrological changes coming up are several objects about to change sign: Mercury (the thoughtful), Venus (values) and the Sun (emblematic of consciousness). Interestingly, all three are inside of Earth’s orbit, thus representing the requisite internal changes that must come first.

Both Mercury and Venus are currently in Capricorn (the sign of institutions) and on their way into Aquarius (the sign of groups in general, and your groups of choice in particular). Mercury makes its second ingress (post-retrograde) to Aquarius tomorrow. Venus follows on Tuesday. 

The Sun, for its part, is on the way out of Aquarius and heading for Pisces — where the ironic separation invoked by disparate groups is transcended to be proactively ‘one with’ — on Friday (or Thursday, depending on time zone).

In the meantime, the rest of the solar system other than the Moon is moving slowly — too slow to wait. That’s how things stack up for the next week or so, and if you are looking for a sign you have one. Look to get your own life into an order that no longer reflects the external order you no longer identify with. Then, begin making plans to cast your lot with others who want something besides a different person behind the gun.

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Danielle Voirin’s Photo of the Day for 02.12.16

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Both the written and audio readings for the beautiful 2016 annual edition, Vision Quest, are now immediately available. Order all 12 signs at a great value or choose your individual signs. You may access written and audio excerpts from the Vision Quest main page.


Paris-based photographer Danielle Voirin travels the world and documents her experiences in photographs. She takes street photography and photojournalism a shade beyond even art, to the level of mysticism. You may see more of her work on her website DanielleVoirin.com, or her alt website, DaniVoirin.com.

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“Always two there are, no more, no less. A master and an apprentice.” — Yoda

Danielle Voirin’s Photo of the Day for 02.11.16

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Both the written and audio readings for the beautiful 2016 annual edition, Vision Quest, are now immediately available. Order all 12 signs at a great value or choose your individual signs. You may access written and audio excerpts from the Vision Quest main page.


Paris-based photographer Danielle Voirin travels the world and documents her experiences in photographs. She takes street photography and photojournalism a shade beyond even art, to the level of mysticism. You may see more of her work on her website DanielleVoirin.com, or her alt website, DaniVoirin.com.

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Street art coming out of the walls on rue de la Lune, Paris.

Mercury Breaks Free, and So Can You

By Amanda Painter

This weekend brings the moment you’ve (possibly) been waiting for. No, I’m not talking about Valentine’s Day (though you might be excited about that, too — or not). Rather, this weekend Mercury finally breaks free, and maybe in some metaphorical way you can, too.

Lobster buoys painted with the flags of the homelands of Maine’s immigrant population decorate the fence in front of the former home of Henry Wadsworth Longfellow and the historical society in Portland, Maine. Photo by Amanda Painter.

Lobster buoys painted with the flags of the homelands of Maine’s immigrant population decorate the fence in front of the former home of Henry Wadsworth Longfellow and the historical society in Portland, Maine. Photo by Amanda Painter.

On Saturday, Mercury leaves Capricorn and enters Aquarius (at 5:43 pm EST / 22:43 UTC). Then on Sunday (Feb. 14), Mercury leaves the degrees of the zodiac where it was recently retrograde, entering fresh territory for the first time since Dec. 19.

I know; sometimes it feels like the only thing that happens in astrology is Mercury retrograde. Technically its last retrograde ended Jan. 25. But I’ve heard from a number of people for whom this post-retrograde ‘shadow’ or ‘echo’ phase has been tougher than the main event. If that sounds like you, take heart.

I suspect there’s something about Capricorn’s orientation to the past (thanks to Saturn) that made it easier to review insights from you personal history as you perceived them within the container (Saturn again) of the official retrograde weeks. Now that you’re trying to implement those insights and initiate something new, your ideas about ‘where you could go’ might still be bumping up against the old walls of ‘how things used to be’.

At least, that’s one possibility. Or maybe teasing out the solutions to problems you encountered is taking more ingenuity than you feel like you have at your fingertips. That could change soon.

The charts for Mercury’s ingress of Aquarius and the end of the shadow/echo phase both suggest to me a little extra freedom — or, at least, an unusual absence of intensely direct mental influences. A brief breather, perhaps, since Mercury does not make any major aspects to major planets immediately upon entering Aquarius.

That’s not to say that nothing else is happening in the sky; the Moon will be traveling through impulsive, go-getter Aries from Thursday morning through Saturday morning, and then it will be in persistent-yet-leisurely Taurus until Monday morning. In each of those signs, the Moon will make a variety of aspects to many planets — so you can expect a constantly shifting inner landscape, rather than camping out in any particular emotion.

But that’s true for the Moon most days, since it moves so quickly from sign to sign. Mercury, on the other hand, has been involved in some particularly attention-grabbing situations lately.

Additionally, the one co-existing aspect that jumped out at me in the chart for Mercury entering Aquarius is rather a pleasant one. Mars in Scorpio and retrograde Jupiter in Virgo will be exactly sextile each other Saturday.

The written readings for all 12 signs of Vision Quest are available, and do are the audio astrology and rune readings! Order all 12 signs here, or individual signs here.

The written readings for all 12 signs of Vision Quest are available for instant access, and so are the audio astrology and rune readings! Order all 12 signs here, or select individual signs here.

This is one of those aspects that generally speaks of positive opportunities, good physical energy levels, sincerity, and a constructive approach to authority. That Jupiter is retrograde suggests you might take a more inward tack with the good mojo.

What does that mean, exactly? Well, in Mercury-ruled Virgo, I could see it taking shape as a much-needed pep-talk with yourself, if you’ve been struggling — the kind of pep-talk that is oriented on a tangible plan of action. With Mars in watery Scorpio, we get the potential to open the flow into some generosity, devotion and empathy toward yourself (‘evolved’ Scorpio traits), and to go deep with it.

I like to think that an un-aspected Mercury in Aquarius is open-minded enough to ‘get it’ intellectually, in a way that sticks on some level. Aquarius allows Mercury (and therefore your mind, which it represents) to be steady, yet resourceful and intuitive. Like when you take a brisk walk on a crisp winter afternoon, and suddenly the angle of some tree branches in the sunlight, glimpsed through your frosty breath, suggest a workable solution to a problem you’ve been mulling over.

If you’ve been struggling, and especially if you’ve been down on yourself about it (or if you’re getting angsty about Valentine’s Day, or beginning to pile it with expectations), what might a fresh, crisp Aquarian mind show you this weekend? Most problems have creative, productive solutions to them; sometimes it just takes some fresh air to notice them.

Danielle Voirin’s Photo of the Day for 02.10.16

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Both the written and audio readings for the beautiful 2016 annual edition, Vision Quest, are now immediately available. Order all 12 signs at a great value or choose your individual signs. You may access written and audio excerpts from the Vision Quest main page.


Paris-based photographer Danielle Voirin travels the world and documents her experiences in photographs. She takes street photography and photojournalism a shade beyond even art, to the level of mysticism. You may see more of her work on her website DanielleVoirin.com, or her alt website, DaniVoirin.com.

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Jungles Key, a young group often traveling between Boston’s Berklee College of Music and Paris, performing at the Bellevilloise in Paris.