ARIES (March 20-April 19)
Your sex is your power, and it’s about time you experienced it as such. You have all the strength you need. You have all the mojo and hormones and desire. What you need is confidence, and that will come from being absolutely real with yourself. When you get there, you will have no choice but to be real with everyone else. When I say be real, I mean real, about what you’ve done, who and what you want, and who you are.
TAURUS (April 19-May 20)
Someone near you wants some intense sex. In fact, you may get the feeling that the human race has never been hornier, and what they all want is you. You can tap into it and have some fun. It would, however, be dangerous to play the tease. If you approach someone, do so with the intention of fulfilling their desire. It’s going to be a lot of fun for you as well, though this is astrology that calls for full commitment to your experience.
GEMINI (May 20-June 21)
I’ve read many times that the brain is the biggest sex organ, and this could be true for you now. Just be careful because what could be very pleasant mental sex could easily become a mindfuck. So unless you are a devoted writer of erotic fiction (which would be a fantastic use of this energy for you) I suggest you stick to the physical plane and work out what you’re feeling in body, complete with body fluids.
CANCER (June 21-July 22)
Take the risk you must take to get the sex you want. State your desires out loud. Make a direct proposition, no matter how intimidated you may be. The most important thing is that you follow an actual desire. Approach only those who you actually want, for sure. That will ensure that your sincerity is backed by hormones, lust and maybe even love — fodder for real passion.
LEO (July 22-Aug. 23)
Try doing the thing that makes you feel the least safe. Everyone seems concerned about boundaries and harm prevention and consent and conservatism. And what everyone wants is to dare, though the prevailing cultural vibe makes this not such a popular thing to admit. If you want to fuck, then say you want to fuck. Don’t call it lovemaking or romance. Skip the small talk and get right to the point.
VIRGO (Aug. 23-Sep. 22)
There seems to be something (or someone) extremely specific that you want. You may not like the fact that you want it. You may wonder if it’s even good for you. You may wonder if you’re obsessed, or if you’re focusing on something negative. I suggest you set aside any judgments you may have and go with the flow of your desires. Erotic needs, fetishes and highly focused cravings are rich territory. So is anything you’re embarrassed about. Get your idea into words, and practice speaking them.
LIBRA (Sep. 22-Oct. 23)
Masturbation is a form of self-forgiveness. In order to get to the place where you can let go, what you have to let go of is your struggle against yourself. If you do this consciously, as a choice, and as an intentional act, the result will be correspondingly more profound. You can associate sexual pleasure with the decision to let go of fear and condemnation, and to embrace your existence and your love of yourself.
SCORPIO (Oct. 23-Nov. 22)
If you’re feeling some frustration, you might consider what it is that’s got a hold on you. Then you’ll have an idea what, exactly, you need to move through. Most people think they’re a lot more sexually free than they actually are. Then they keep running into that same old iceberg. You might want to admit that it’s there, and notice where, and what, it is. Then you can do something about it.
SAGITTARIUS (Nov. 22-Dec. 22)
Sexual fantasies, the real ones, usually have nothing to do with romance. True, there are people who dress up all their characters and act out dramas along the banks of the Seine, but for the most people, sex is the heart of the matter. And it’s not generally the kind that would even get an R rating. I suggest you go directly into the imagery and feeling of what you want, no matter how inappropriate — indeed, especially if it’s not appropriate.
CAPRICORN (Dec. 22-Jan. 20)
It’s often unpopular to be open about sex, and one response to that is to thrive on the tension this causes. This is a natural enough adaptation; however, I would only go there if it’s an actual source of pleasure for you. You could just as well associate with others who like and appreciate your point of view, and who take pleasure in what gives you pleasure. Leave the activism to others, at least for now.
AQUARIUS (Jan. 20-Feb. 19)
Domination and submission come from the same basic emotional root, which is the exchange of power. I know a domme who says that in every relationship there is a top and a bottom, and that we might as well get that out of the way at the outset. In her model, the notion of existing on level ground is greatly exaggerated. That may be true in the short run, but then you have your personal evolution to consider.
PISCES (Feb. 19-March 20)
Religion has long made sex its enemy. People who love sex might take a cue from that — it’s a direct comment on how much strength can be found in contacting one’s sexuality. You don’t need any teachings of religion to understand who you are. You only need to stay in contact with your biology, and what you recognize as your deepest desires. Both have more wisdom than all the popes and all the saints combined.